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I have realized that there are many couples out there that are in a relationship with an Albanian boy or girl.
Many people find it hard to understand Albanian traditions and culture.
If you are in a relationship with an Albanian partner and you have many questions but you don't know where to get the answers, I am here to help you.
If you have any questions feel free to ask and I will reply as soon as possible.
Sometimes when we are in a relationship things tend to get hard, however with a little bit of research and understanding everything can get fixed.
Talk to you soon!
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ReplyDeleteWhat incentive would an albanian male have to marry a non albanian if albanian women are borned and raised to be the perfect nuse? Where anyone else would not be as happy to but herself aside to please her husbands every need?
Would you say that most albanian husbands cheat? After all they do think the man rule the world
nOW LISTEN HERE I HAPPEN TO KNOW SOMEONE WHO KNOWS SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS aLBANIAN-AND ACCORDING TO HER HE'S VERY CUTE, PLEASANT TO BE AROUND, HE'LL SACRIFICE ANYTHING THAT NEEDS TO BE-ALL FOR THE GIRL HE LOVES.AND if he cheats on her, I CAN ASSURE YOU IT WOULD HAVE BEEN AGAINST HIS WILL-AS IF HE HAD REALLY LOVED ANOTHER HE WOULD HAVE A COUPLE OF MISSING LIMBS. bUT ITS OK SUCH IS THE NATURE OF TRUE LOVE.
DeleteHi,
DeleteInteresting questions. At this point I truly believe Albanians have evolved drastically. Each day they care more about true happiness as opposed to looking picture perfect to the public.
There are numerous Albanian men that don't care anymore if a girl is Albanian or not, as long as they are compatible and love, respect each other.
So the chances of an Albanian man looking to marry a girl that isn't Albanian are high.
Not all Albanian men cheat , just like not all men in general cheat.
I am happily married and my husband hasn't cheated on me. ( Not that I know of lol).
All jokes aside, find someone that loves and respects you always. If someone truly loves and respects you as a person, then I doubt they would cheat on you.
Iam 37 I haven't been married or had 👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼 I want Albanian boyfriend or iam not late can you please tell me
DeleteHello,
ReplyDeleteI understand your point, however times are changing. Albanian girls are realizing that their happiness comes first. Although back in the day, being the perfect nuse was the most important thing, now a day girls care about their happiness, their careers and try to please their needs and wants first. I personally do try to have a happy relationship with my husband in every way I can. However, I always put my needs and my happiness first. The truth is many Albanian guys have the idea that marrying an Albanian girl is the perfect choice because they believe they will have the perfect marriage and the perfect housewives. But every day guys are realizing that even the most strictly raised Albanian girl is not willing to settle for less unless her needs and wants are met as well.
I don't believe every Albanian husband cheats. Do Albanian husbands cheat? Sure just like any other husband from any other county. I have many Albanian family members and friends whom are happily married. Both partners are happily married without any cheating or controlling going on.
Yes there are many guys that believe they rule the world, however that does not mean every Albanian man believes that. That the tricky part, you have to find an Albanian guy that shares the same believes as you :))
Best of Luck,
Simple_Blogger
hi,
ReplyDeletei am currently married but im in love with someone else.
what should i do?
help plz
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Hi Anonymous,
DeleteI am sorry that you are in such a hard situation. You have two options, either divorce your husband/wife and go be freely with the person you are in love with. Or you can forget about the person you are in love with and live your life they way you are. If I was you I would try and figure out if getting a divorce would be the best option and go be with the person I am in love with!
Best of luck !!!!
Just remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side if the fence. I never understood this till I experienced it. It will soon pass and you will be glad you stayed.
DeleteJust remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side if the fence. I never understood this till I experienced it. It will soon pass and you will be glad you stayed.
DeleteVery true. Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have till we lose it.
DeleteIs it true that olde albanian families dont believe in gf and bf u must be married.
ReplyDeleteAnd baby before marriage can cauae a family to cut off a family member?
Hi Melissa,
DeleteYes sweetie it is true. Albanians dont believe in having a gf or bf. They are very judgmental of young people that have gf or bf. It is also true that many families have cut off family members that have had babies before marriage. Its very sad but its true!
Take care,
Nora
Is it true that olde albanian families dont believe in gf and bf u must be married.
ReplyDeleteAnd baby before marriage can cauae a family to cut off a family member?
If a black boy was to date an Albanian girl, what would it take for her parents to be accepting of this?
ReplyDeleteFrankly speaking most Albanian parents would never come to full terms with their daughter dating an African American. This doesn't mean Albanian are racist, but their main wish as parents is to always see their children marry within their own race, culture and religion.
DeleteThey won't accept it they're racist
DeleteThey won't accept it they're racist
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ReplyDeleteHello,
ReplyDeleteThank your very much for all you information it's very helpful
I have been several months in relationship with an Albanian woman divorced from a previous marriage which ended badly....
We are in love, we want to be togher, between us the things are really nice
But part of her family is against it as I'm not Albanian
She had really hard moments, pressure, and I don't know what to do
I proposed to fallow all the traditional and cultural path having a committment as they are really traditional
But she thinks it would not be enough.... To be accepted by them and she will pay for it....
What do you think I should do?
Thank you
Hi,
ReplyDeleteCan you please explain the divorce process in Albania. I was with my ex Albanian boyfriend for 7 yrs (living together) like married couple . When we were in crises he went home to Albania after 10 yrs and of course he got engaged and in a year he got married. This really broke me as he was my live. His parents were very unhappy with him being with non Albanian. He contacted me recently and he wants us to get back together he is very unhappy with his life, living with his parents and wife whom he saw 3 times before they got married (he got married in Aug 2014). I'm still loving him very much but i can't imagine to be someone's lover. The divorce idea came from him but I know that Albanians and how serious they are about marriage. Is it possible for him to get divorce? I would really appreciate your answer before I make any decision. Thank you
Are you Albanian ? If not . Better leave him where he is, because when youll be together and will get his visa to stay in this country he will divorced you and keep all his family. its better to stay away with Albanian guys. Your life will be disaster and you will feel betrayed by them.
DeleteHi i am in bit of hard situations i have albanina boyfriend and we are 3 months together now and he is very controlling and jealous person he claims he loves me but recently i have found that he started to text some albanian girls and i dint not understand the conversations so i asked my fried to translate and she basically told be they are flirting with each other and he is asking the girl if she wants shower with him and the send pictures to each other ending kisses and he recently send his bath pic and send to her and when i asked him about it he said its my cousin and we have traditions so i ask so what is your tradition of asking your cousin for shower and other flirting stuff but he said yes we just joke, some other girl when i asked her if she is his cousin she said no i dont know him and have nothing to do whit him so i told him he is ling to me but he swears that he is not that its nothing its his cousin, and i dont know what to do if he is taking all this serious also from the conversation he asked the girl have you seen my wife and he said he has no wife so i dont know what to do about it we dont see each other very often only one 2 days a week and he never has time to text me and we dont meet during weekends because he is always tired after work he is not doing nothing i am the one doing all for him and it seems that he is not serious about this .
ReplyDeleteHe doesnt tell anyone about our relationship and doesnt introduce me to his friends because he claims some aren't good and even to the good ones he doesnt constantly complain what i am doing wrong that i am not doing nothing where in fact i am helping him with everything i found out he talks about me with his friend what we are doing but then what it seems is that he doesnt talk about me like am his girl just some thing to play
ReplyDeleteThey are cheater. They always have a gf in Albanian country. They always say thats theyre cousin but they are not. Once they get their visa to stay here. Your life will be ended with them.
DeleteI am an albanian myself and my parents have been divorced for a year or 2 now and I want to marry one of my kind. Yet, I always feel negative about the thought like no guy would due to my family's image. Can you please be real with me and tell me if I still have a shot?
ReplyDeleteThid is not a problem you are martying him not ond of his parents,but to tell you the truth the family of the guy will be a little unhappy or insecure but the only thing that they want to know is that you love and respect their kid if you do that your parents divorce wont affect annything
DeleteUhm hi i have a crush on a albanian girl for about a quite time and she has a crush on me as wel but months back her family found it out that we like eachother. But i can still tell she likes me in a secretive way for instance being shy,quiet and nervous around me but with her family/friends acts nonchalant or disintersted around me. Should i make a move to talk to her? I know it sounds very stupid
ReplyDeletePershendetje!
ReplyDeleteI've been together with an Albanian boy, born here in Norway. I am a Norwegian girl.
He is 17 and I am 19.
We've been together for about 5 months now (I know its not that much), but we are really stressed out when it comes to his parents. We are very scared, especially my boyfriend...of how his parents will be if they find out about us.
He is so afraid of what will happen. But the scariest thing for me happened yesterday. I got to visit where he lived for the first time, and had it nice there until his father came up to us and began to speak to him in Albanian.
He had somehow found out about him lying to visit my apartment to sleep over...
He didn't rage or anything but got very very dissapointed...which I really understand...Me myself haven't liked my boyfriend lying to his parents.
Since in Norway we are equals. My boyfriend got to meet my father, mother, step mom and father....and my fathers family. He loves them! So I am very unused to taking such long time...but I understand and respect it, even though it sometimes is tiring.
But back to what the father said. He was disapointed, but also said to his son that he didn't like him being afraid of his own father, and would like for him to tell him stuff after this...
His father has some kinda negative view on Norwegian women because of some men in the family had some trouble with Norwegian women. He told my bf:
"If you continue with this....or take it any longer....you will still be my son, but not that much a part of my heart."
:-( I feel so bad too...The thing is his father is really nice and warm, the same with his mother...I would really have no problem at all to just meet them or get to know them as I respect everything with family...At least my bf wont have to lie anymore...and I got to handshake and greet his father ^^
We have been thinking of taking it more "easy". Him not visiting me or me him in a good while...Luckily we go to the same school. He told me he would still take me out. I think it may help...my father thinks so too. We are both agreeing not to give up that easy.
What do you think? Would you suggest anything else?
Ah and also :-) Une mesoj shqip, por kuptoj vetem pak x)
Nice I'm happy to hear that, just love and respect the boy and talk everything with him once the dad realises you like his son then he wont be a problem albanians are a little overprotective
Deletei work with Albanian guys and i really really like one of theme hes 28 and am 22 and im mexican do they like hispanics girls?
ReplyDeleteIm a Hispanic girl who met an albanian guy online. He is 23 and im 37 (but i look 20) he sounds very mature for his age. We skype everyday, there is a 6 hour difference but he stays up and we talk for hours. He told me that he has applied for a student visa. We have about 1 month taking and he just told his parents about me (Thats what he claims). He wants to go and visit his country because he wants me to meet his parents and I'm planning to go in august. My feelings for him are growing, i truly enjoy talking to him and i appreciate the fact that he sacrifices his sleep to talk to me. Im just worried that he might not get his visa. Getting his papers through marriage, that scares me.
ReplyDeleteAny opinions?
There has been many other Albanian men who have made the woman either from the USA or EU to go to Albania and marry them. They play the time card very well since they usually leave the country married young, usually to a much older woman close to 20 years their age. They get their green card and they say good bye to you. Yes they will be grateful to you and seem to love you for the time they are with you. Even their controlling behavior might seem to be love, but its not. They keep their long term goals very clear. In the end they can get divorced and remarried to an Albanian woman. If you and him would have met in the same country with less differences. Then, maybe he would be legit.
DeleteIam 37 year old woman I have out Albanian man b4 I haven't been married or had any 👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼 am I to old can u please tell me
DeleteI am an american and i have been dating an Albanian guy for over a year now. His family knows about us being together and i have gone over to his house numerous times although he usually comes to mine. We have been perfectly happy together until this past week. His family wanted him to go to an Albanian wedding to set him up with an Albanian girl. He told them no because he already has a girlfriend that he loves and cares for. His family immediately became disappointed And angry with him. Even his little sister and cousins look down on him. I cannot help but feel responsible for all of this. It hurts me to see him sad. I came up with the idea of us just trying to be friends and still staying in each others lives. He told me that if we break up, he would move to a different school because seeing me and not being able to hold my hand and talk to me would hurt to much. Even if we did break up, he told his parents that he won't meet any Albanian girls. He absolutely does not want to leave me much like myself of course. He told me that it is a lose lose situation for him. If we stay together, he would be happy with me but his family would never speak to him again. If we break up, his family wouldnt be disappointed in him but he would be sad because he wouldnt be with me anymore. I'm also worried because he is telling me that he wouldnt care about his life anymore if I left him. He seems very depressed and i cannot make this decision for him. We are both 17 if that makes any difference at all. Im in need of some help because I don't no what to do anymore. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteSeek counseling for the suicide outcry.
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ReplyDeletehi, im in secondery school and i have an albanian gf. her family doesnt accept me. i was wondering if albanians take relationships differentally as she is a lot different to all my ex girlfirends. thank you
ReplyDeleteI have a relation with an albanian over 7 years he's married, but don't believe a happy married cause always come back to me, we try to break up to many times, but he's always come back, any way he follow all the tradition, he married a women who was choose by he's father, very religious, don't believe he's happy, believe he show happiness so every body can realize how have to be. I just enjoy my time with him, I'm not albanian, I'm latina, I'm just let our bf and gf relationship continue, don't know how long, I'm married to.
ReplyDeleteHe is perfectly happy with his religious wife because he knows she would not dare cheat on him. He is just having fun with you because you are that type of woman that has pity for his so called unhappy marriage. At least he has peace of mind his wife is religious and faithful.
DeleteI was ratings Albanian man for t And a half years. I am Mexican and my family loves him but I have never met his family. He Did explain that there was a possibility that they wont approve of him dating someone other then an Albanian woman. I felt like I was a huge secret and not worthy of meeting his family so I broke up with him. He said he didnt want to lose me but if we were to get back together he would lose his parents. I can't live with myself off they were to happen. Would Albanian parents really disown their children for that? We love each other so much. But he chose to follow his culture. I can't be mad at him I just wish they would of given me a chance. Worst heart break ever. If he new they wouldn't approve why didn't he tells me like years sooner. Will his parents ever change their minds?
ReplyDelete5 and a half years I ment.
DeleteThey missed the opportunity to meet you. You are valuable and have traditions too. If he loves and wants to be brave he would have asked you for marriage sooner. Not all families are as strictly traditional. My husband's family and friends were very happy to meet me. I am Mexican and have strong traditions just as Albanians. No marriage and honor then no relationship. In my Mexican family we don't believe in boyfriend gf. Marriage is honor. And they know what that means. ALbanian families would never give their daughter if there is no marriage involved.
DeleteI love an albanian girl and she is 21 year old she do same but i think she told me lie so much and sometime she left our chat in between and when i ask reason she told me business issue or her friend wrote her and she walk with her cousin everyday sometime twice in a day and her cousin is 2 year older than her and when she walk with him sometime she went offline and sometime she reply so lately and when i want reason she didn't told me clearly is that safe to walk with him
ReplyDeletei've been talking to this Albanian guy for about a month, I'm 27, he's 26. I have a daughter who is four, and I'm debating if i should tell him or not. I feel like i should just stop talking to him because Albanians have very old school views on women and kids etc.. so why go through the heartache etc.. please advise!
ReplyDeleteHi everyone. I just wanna ask about Albanian guys, what are their personalities. I've just known him today and we take vid calls. But, I don't get it. He wants me to be here girlfriend. I am so confused on how to explain it and how to start.
ReplyDeleteask for his visa first.
DeleteI didn't want to believe that its true that Albanians make horrible boyfriends, but I do now.
ReplyDeleteI knew one over 20 years
He invited me to see him.
I put down $900 for the trip and stupid me, $5000 in cash.
The first 5 days were great. Then he spent more and more time with his friends he didn't want me to meet.
He soent one whole night out not telling me anything or calling me or leaving a note while I was out buying something for him
Speaking of that I bought most of the food as well
$5000+ dollars cash came up missing from my suitcase and my bank card was hacked.
I didn't want to blame him, but now I'm back home and he never calls, rarely took my calls, and he listed his relationship status as single today.
I think they see American girls as stupid rich cash cows.
I am heartbroken and feel very stupid.
Almost the same thing happened to me. Now I don't trust my own judgement. If you want you can email me because I like to compare more my experience to yours
Deletethey are cheater
DeleteI'm Puerto Rican and I've been talking to this Albanian guy for almost 2 months. I'm 17 and he's 21 my parents approve although they don't know him personally. I've heard so many things about Albanian guys which really make me overthink but he shows me how much he loves me takes me out to places he shows lots of interest but will I meet his family soon? He claims his brother knows but he doesn't keep me a secret but I would love to meet his family
ReplyDeleteHe doesn't keep me a secret I meant. I've even met a couple of his friends through FaceTime. But is he ever gonna take me to meet his family is my question
Deletejust be careful.
DeleteI am Greek and my ex-girlfriend is Albanian. We were best friends as soon as she moved to my school, and from that friendship our love progressed naturally. It was always an issue the whole family not accepting me thing and she kept our relationship a secret, however she always said she wants to do what makes her happy, and that was to be with me. But a recent visit to Albania put a lot of pressure on her to be with an Albanian man, and she crumbled. She stayed 4 weeks in Albania and is now in England for 4 months studying. We barely spoke while she was in Albania because of a lack of wifi but also because her family would always take her phone and she wanted to keep me secret. The first time i heard her voice in 4 weeks was to break up with me. She says that her family will never accept me and what her sisters and brother-in-laws have with her parents will never happen with me. But i love this girl, i was with her for almost 2 years. We were inseparable and so so similar. I am Greek, and she is from a town very close to the Greek-Albanian border, so our culture and morals and our perception on life in general is very similar. The only thing i do not have is the language and an Albanian last name. I told her I'll learn Albanian, and I've been trying to learn it. I told her she can keep her last name forever it really doesn't matter to me. But she is very scared to tell them and it was because of this fear she ended it. We still talk and she says she still loves me and always will and that she misses me and even says that she doesn't know what will happen between us in the future, so i'm holding on to hope until she gets back that we can still make it work.
ReplyDeleteBut i want to know, is there any thing i can do to ensure that i be accepted into her family, that they will like me?
I love her so much and to see that she still loves me but feels she has to do this breaks me. I will be more than happy to learn Albanian, to embrace the culture. i am respectfully and work 2 jobs and study so I'm not a loser but i can guarantee her a secure and stable future. I will always treat her like the princess she is and i can guarantee that there is not one man on this planet that could love her more than i do.
I am trying my hardest to do whatever i can, because even though i may only be 19, when i think of the future i only ever want to see it with her.
Is there any thoughts on what i could possibly do?
And i can't move on, not until i see her in person, so i have to wait 4 months.
And we are from Australia so visiting her is a little hard.
Hello... I am 25 yrs old Asian woman and I had a relationship with a 28 years old albanian guy for 10 months when i found out that i am pregnant with his first child... When i told it to him, he freaked out and said he doesn't want it so i should abort the baby. He said he is not yet ready and his family will not gonna accept it. Me and my parents dont agree with that. We decided to keep the baby then he cut everything off in me and said if i will keep it then we are finish. Now he's not talking to me and even blocked me on everything. Does albanian guys is like that? They will abandon their own child just because they are not ready? Where is the sense of responsibility so called strong brave albanians?
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ReplyDeleteHello I been with one albanian guy for 2 years I'm Spanish and we both live in england. I never met his family beca use they are in albania and what he said is because he has 2 kids back home he can't do it yet because the ex gf can take the kids from him away. We have many arguments about this and when I bring the conversation he get angry and agresive and he said is no my business. I left him ones because I can't trust him 100% and he come back for me many times and I back with him. I'm so confused and hurtEd as he doesn't respect me. I love him butility something is telling me he still with this woman back home. I'm 23 and he is 33 and he hide me many things about his life. I need one answer for make my finally decision.
ReplyDeleteThanks
get away ftom him. he might wants just visa. When he will get his visa. He will leave you and take his family here instead. be careful..
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ReplyDeleteHello,
ReplyDeleteI could really use some advice...
I am dating an Albanian man, and everything is perfect.
I am leaving soon to live with him for a year. Apparently his whole family is really excited to meet me... however most of them are not aware I was recently divorced and I have been asked to not say anything about it.
I am OK with this, but I am really nervous to meet his family, especially his parents. What customs/ things should I be aware of when I meet them? I don't speak Albanian and the don't speak English... so what can I do to give the best impression?
Thank you!!
PS... I am an American :)
DeleteHey.
DeleteFirst of all you need to know that if an albanian guy is in love with you and he wants to introduce you to his parents that is a really big thing and it means he really is in love and is serious as albanian people are really family orientated and his family and their opinion is always going to be first for him. He will also judge your relationship with your parents so make sure to have eveyrthing okay. I assume that if he is introducing you then that means he told them things about you for example what he thinks about you why he loves you and why he is introducing you to them which is because he wants a life with you.
albanian guys see a woman as gold that you have to take care of and in return all they want is for you to love them and basically be their second mum which means cleaning and cooking and doing the household.
The main point i would advise you is to research a little bit about traditions of albanian people and try to learn a few words even if you cant pronounce them right they will apriciate your try and will have a good imression. Be smiley and polite but at the same time be a bit held back as they are most likely old fashioned people. Also don't be too affectionate with your partner around them so no cheesy too romantic touches and kisses and calling him cute nicknames. Albanian parents dont believe in bf/gf thing they beleive in serious relationships and marriage and sex for them is really strict topic so they would obviously not expect you to stay a virgin but if they ask about previous relationship dont say too much. About divorce they will accept it as it is not your fault. But you being married before is kind of a smalal sin in their eyes so try to avoi talking about that and if they do find out about it just say the reason for the divorce was that he wasnt the one he wasnt the right one and now you finally found the one.
I dont know how much that helps but thats all i know as i am dating an albanian guy too so i went throught the struggl :D
I dont want to ruing your decision or chat relationship. just be careful. maybe he wants just visa in America. When they get their visa. they are always take their albanian family instead and your life will be ended.
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ReplyDeleteso i am dating with an albanian guy for 2 months and in the start we actually just wanted to have a one night stand and thats it but i felt this connection with him even though he doesnt speak fluent english i dont care about it. And after we had a one night stand we started meeting more and more and we behaved like a couple so i asked him what we are and he said "you are my girl" well i mean i know that albanian guys are possessive and jealous and he is like that so he always checks my phone and he doesnt allow me to meet my guy friends. we had a lot of arguments about this but i love him a lot so i agreed with it and i do EVERYTHING he says.
I dont know if im doing that right i mean i feel kind of used. I travel to his house an hour late at night to his cousins house to chill and have sex with him. I mean he behaves really cute around me and i can see that he loves me by how he behaves with me but my problem is that i kind of feel like he is ashamed of me or something because we never go out we never have dates his parents dont know about me and reason being is because "im not his wife his parents doesnt need to know" some of his family members knows and a few friends but we dont do anything together and i feel like i do everything and he doesnt do shit even the smallest things like meeting up or doing things together sometimes when i complain that he is not doing anything for me and to make me happy we stop talking and then he starts feeling bad starts doing small changes but then everything is the same.
I dont know if he doesnt love me and he is just using me or not i mean he doesnt meet or talk to any girls and he helps me when i reallly need him but i dont know how i can convince him to change a little bit and be a better boyfriend which would include meeting up more and him telling me more stuff
Hello Anonymous,
DeleteTo answer your question:
I am dating an Albanian man and we have been dating for about 6 months. He talked to his parents about me almost instantly. All his friends and family know about me and are dying to meet me.
Every situation and man is different. Now I CAN tell you that friends and family in Albanian culture are all about their family and friends. Traditionally, Albanian men do not even mention their significant other to their parents until he is planning on proposing. However his friends and sneaking you around like that.... It sounds like he is either using you or 2 months is WAY too short for him to love you or know if he wants to take the relationship to another level. And not wanting to meet you in public... Now if you are living in Albania, I kind of understand why he is doing that. I do hear gossip is large their and rumors spread about engagements and scandals. Is you are elsewhere.... not meeting you in public is definitely odd and I would be very worried and careful with your heart. Regardless, hearing your situation he is not serious about you at all.
I know that sounds harsh, I'm sorry, but sometimes someone has to tell you the truth! No one wants to waste their time.
Good luck to you!
I met an Albanian man online. He pursued me and I gave in after a couple of weeks. He swears he is being honest when he says he loves me, cares for me, wants to meet me in person. He had.never asked me for anythingetting except my time. We laugh and talk and I genuinely have feelings for him. I am scheduling a trip to Albania next spring. My concerns are these...he hasn't told his family about me, and when we talk about the future, he states that he doesn't know where he wants to be. Yet, he tells me he loves me, and I am important to him (in the same category as his family) and that he can't wait until we can finally meet. Am I being too trusting? Or too hopeful?
ReplyDeleteDo not trust him!! He is just looking for an adventure nothing else!! He should be man enough to do the first step insread of you going to Albania. Look my mom is half albanian I really do know what I am talking about. Read my experience below and you'll see what I am experiencing now...
DeleteAre you from UK? Be careful. he might just wants a visa.
DeleteHi guys I am an 29 years old,turkish (with albanian roots),woman. I had to end my relationship to a 30 year old albanian a few days ago....our relationship took nearly 3 years but his parents didn't want to meet me;they even didn't want to get to know me.They were against our relationship because of the fact that their son was not my first relationship and the fact that I am not full blooded albanian :/ I am very very desperate ..his mother is calling me a whore without knowing me. My ex bf wants to keep everything in a peaceful way although there is no peace in his family anymore!! He always told me how much he loves me and that I am his only reason to be alive.But he is not able to marry me no matter what his mommy is going to say...that's why I couldn't wait for a miracle anymore and why I broke up a few days ago....I don't hear anything from him it's soo so hard and heartbreaking. Albanian parents mit be the wirst guys I swear....soo desperate!!! He even didn't want to break up but had to accept my decision. I'm praying for a miracle :(
ReplyDeleteHi, I have been dating this Albanian guy for about a month now. I am an African-American, and he works with a visa. We met on a dating website. Since then our feelings for each other have grown rapidly! After three weeks of hanging out and everything going well between us, I asked him to stay before I went home for Christmas break. It seems like sincethen we have been arguing lately about the most petty stuff. And as much I don't want to blame the obvious cultural and language barriers, I feel like our misunderstandings of each other are taking a toll. After two weeks, we told each other that we loved each other, and now after we argue, we bring it right back to why we are together. However, not only is the long distance over Christmas break having a toll, but also, I feel that there is something else that is not right, but I just cannot put my finger on it. I want us to work in the long term, but with his visa being up in the next few months and with my life/goals here in America, I am not sure what to do. I want to trust him, but recently, I have had my doubts... What do I do?
ReplyDeleteHI, I would like to know where would be the best place to meet Albanian women; in the states or abroad? I use to date one and find them loving determined and strong willed.
ReplyDeletemy boyfriend is also an Albanian...we're living together in his house here in Canada during my off days ( as if we were like "live in partners" already ) for three months...Honestly he rented a house near to my place because he said -
ReplyDeletefor privacy (which I loved him most because of his being straight forward when it comes to a decision making at the age of 32) our relationship is fine and smoothly going until one day I feel so paranoid cause he didn't message me in the morning so I keep sending him a message and trying to call him on the phone but still he hang up my calls and ignores my messages...so that night as well I went into his house and asked him why he never answers my messages nor my calls? And he told me " I told you if I can't answer you it means I'm busy and I will call you back once I'm free" don't put me into a disaster (make sense anyway) but then of course me cause I'm curious to know the real reason I keep on asking him until he said " you know what you are acting like a child .. I don't want like this anymore... I guess I am not meant for you... I'm done with you... he walked out..I remained seated and still on shocked reaction...I didn't cry cause I don't want him to see me crying...bedtime comes were still sleeping in the same bed I tried to talk to him but seems he heard nothing so I just let it go...till midnight I guess we're both feeling the same way (cannot sleep) until we just hugged one another and here comes the burning fire from our body...we woke up in each other's arm...morning, I need to go back to my working place, he told me to bring all my stuffs and so I said to myself that probably he is still upset..so i just followed what he said and he drove me home...the following day I message him he answers me too and he calls me still every night but the only thing I noticed is he only seldomly addressed me as "Baby" as we often used to say it but he also says I love you when he calls me...
My question is do you think he is still upset? Does he still love me? How to win him back again? Please I need your opinion or advice that would be of great help...thank you..
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ReplyDeleteIve been dating this guy for a year now, we've had ups and downs and always seem to work it out, however he will not admit he is Albanian he says he's from Italy when I know he isn't. After an entire year we finally became intimate yrt he still has not brought me to where he lives nor introduced me to any family. He says we're exclusive and he's not "with" anyone else but I'm not his "girlfriend " and to just trust him. I am American, so not knowing where he lives or his family is very stressful. It's beginning to cause stupid fights and tension. He says he loves me and even asks sometimes if I would ever go overseas with him. We both have had previous marriages from what he says he's divorced and we're both in our 30's. I do trust him but I feel like he's hiding something and if there are cultural differences why doesn't he just tell me that instead of leaving my mind to wonder. When we argue he also shuts me out for sometimes days at a time and will eventually get back to normal but why won't he open up to even where he lives after an entire year? I'm confused.
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ReplyDeleteHi, I'm an Italian and have an Albanian boyfriend, he has recently been calling his female Albanian friend zemer and she knows him kisses on social media.. What does this mean
ReplyDeleteHi I am from many countries like albania, but live in America. I fell in love with an Albanian guy 1 year younger than me, Maybe 2. He talks about having a husband, and I'm not suee of this traditional part. Maybe some advice would be nice... I want to make sure we ultimately get everything done right. I don't want to be stuck on the outside either. And it doesn't bother me.
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